Not Being ‘the Other Woman’

At the outset, let me say, there Are women who choose to be the Other Woman.

They want a married man.  They want to live their own lives, with financial aid.  They may have a boyfriend who is poor or abroad, and don’t want ‘complications’.

These women go after married men who have money and limited free time.

This usually results in her being set up in a nice apartment, given money for expenses and only pencils him in for specific days.

These women know what they are doing, and do it.

But there are other women who don’t know their ‘boyfriend’ is married.  They don’t know they are ‘Other Women’.  They don’t know what position they have put themselves in.

How to prevent it?

Firstly, find out where he lives.   Go there, just to see who lives there.   You can pick a Sunday afternoon to stop by or, if you are shy, get someone else to do it to determine whom he lives with.

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You can have a friend learn his home phone number, and call it when you know he isn’t there to see who answers.  Unfortunately, many people don’t have a home phone.

If these two tasks are not possible, and you accept a date from him, where does he take you?

Does he take you to some behind the world place?  A place where no one will see you with him?

When does he call for a date?  Last minute?

Does he pick you up at your door or are you to meet him somewhere?

Suggest a date on a holiday to go somewhere big and public. If he refuses, make a tick.  For either he is staying home with his family, or taking them out, or, doesn’t want to be seen with you.

If he introduces you to people does he say; “My girlfriend..” or does he say; “A co-worker…”   does he get distant and look around when you enter a place and avoids touching you or acting romantic?

If you bought two tickets to a major venue does he decline?

If a man doesn’t want to be seen with you in public, if he doesn’t let you know where he lives,  if dates are last minute for some corner no one will see you, then it is likely he is married.




  • kaylar

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    • Good Information, I really like this article. It provided much Information about our society and culture. You have provided enough data about the subject to avoid such cases. We will be looking forward to have more Information on this topic from you.

    • No illicit relationship is exposed. It is for the wife to be vigilant and notice changes in her man. It is better to nip it in the bud rather than dilly dally when it is too late. The wife should also know why her man is seeking a relationship outside of marriage and make good whatever is lacking in her to the best of her ability.

      • It isn't so upfront. Take this case... the wife is a surgical nurse. She is called at all hours. He is very nice about it. He calls a girl... he picks her up somewhere... takes her somewhere...takes her home.

        When the wife comes home, she never guesses hubby was out.

        Take this one... every Tues Hubby goes to a club meeting from 6 to 10. He goes to the hotel where the meeting is held, signs in, comes inside then goes out when she rings him. Meets her. Takes her to a room finishes with the room in about thirty minutes, to the bar. Maybe orders something. Then the meeting is up and everyone comes out to talk, she leaves. He comes home.

    • Women should be vigilant in looking for their man. In some instances, women tend to be vulnerable to having a relationship with married men. It is their choice. However, the fact is not acceptable. But then, who are we to judge them? It seems life is becoming complicated nowadays.

      You got good pointers here. Single women should protect themselves and not fall to deception. It is sad to say, some men are players.

      • If you don't know he's married, you don't know you are the 'other woman'. Many married men get away with affairs because of this.

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