Courtship and Marriage
In this group, you can discuss different issues, problems or benefits of courtship and marriage. Marriage being the most sensitive issue in terms of decision making, it’s prudent we share more light on exactly what need to be done in order to come up with a good relationship. The bible says “Where there is no Vision, the people perish, but he that keeps the law, happy is he. (Proverbs 29:18)” let’s share this vision with the community.
You can share tips for healthy relationships, faithfulness, determining God’s will in marriage, choosing the bride, youth and marriage e.t.c. You can also share stuffs like, how to be a good husband or wife, etc.
The current trend in courtship and marriage is demeaning to both parents and the society at large. I have discovered that most of our youth fall in love without proper discernment of what it entails. Many of them cannot differentiate between LOVE and LUST. Many of our young generation have become victims of circumstances where some have been forced into marriage unexpectedly.
Many young devoted Christians are forfeiting their faith for husbands or wives without considering the consequences thereof. According to the bible, Marriage is sacred and it was ordained by God Himself (Genesis 2:18 25). God caused deep sleep to fall on Adam while he knew no sin. God took care that he felt no pain. God, as her Father, brought the woman to the man, as his second self, and a help mate for him.
That wife, who is of God’s making by special grace, and of God’s bringing by special providence, is likely to prove a help mate for a man. See what need there is, both of prudence and prayer in the choice of this relation, which is so near and so lasting. This needed to be well done for life because it was a life time commitment.
With this in mind I urge all our youth who face challenges in courtship and marriage to open up and share their feelings here.
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