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May 1, 2017 at 11:41 am

Earlier in too used to judge people very early but now I am cautious in my initial interactions.

It’s best to wait, watch and then judge someone.

May 1, 2017 at 12:39 pm

People do change too. Many of us don’t pay attention to change of heart. We these days are so hard on each other. We judge each other on one final stroke. And we assume that it may change the way we think of things. You can see that in some of the cases judging people. I think we have to keep some distance and then think of how things go. Most likely there will be times when things are going to be lot harder. And we have to appreciate that part. I personally starting to take life one day at a time. And based on that I want to see how life goes on.

May 1, 2017 at 3:39 pm

@shavkat one always needs to be careful about fairweather friends.

May 4, 2017 at 6:30 pm

 @Ahamed Husain To me, I think judging people based on their fist interaction is very bad. I mean we are in the world where actions speak louder than words. So, just by interaction, we can’t truly understand the true nature of the people.

Let me share my experience where I faced a similar situation. When I was studying in school I used to have a friend who stabbed me on my back for a silly reason. I really loved her and she was my best friend until high school. I was so honest with this girl and I treated her like my bestie but she didn’t. She was so good when we became friends and after a month she showed her real face. She will tell bad things about me in class and to my teachers. Because of this, I was portrayed as a bad girl in my class. I asked her why she was doing things like these she said, “Everybody in our class and the teachers like you which I don’t like. I want everyone to like me. So, I don’t care what you think.”

After she stated like this I realized we should not judge anyone easily and early. I had this lesson and changed myself.