There’s people who are so focused on what others want and their needs that they’ll forget about their own. Sometimes we’ll figure that no matter how hard we try there is somethings that will never change. Helping others should feel rewarding and not be chaotic when it feels that way then we should move on to “peaceful events.” Help those who appreciate the help.
The bible stresses about being cheerful givers and it also talks about how the poor can be givers as well. We don’t need a lot of money to assist but there’s always something we can do. Although the bible speaks about people helping one another. We’re never forced. We all have choice. Some will choose to be kind, some choose to assist in some way, and some choose to complain. The one who will complain the most are the ones who will probably assist the least.
Some people aren’t satisfied with their lives so they’ll try to make it difficult for others. Sometimes we just have to focus on our needs and surround ourselves with a smaller circle. I’ve had to remove some toxicities and things get better when we make such a decision. No one can make everyone happy so it’s best to not even try. Life shouldn’t be filled with stress and it certainly shouldn’t be filled with stress from other people.
Living our lives in ways that will generate peace will create better health. Some people may never be satisfied with our shine but for those who are. They’ll offer what we really need and we’ll be able to see “brighter days.” It’s better to enjoy our lives while we’re in positions to do so then to be stressed with what others want.
Sometimes we’ll feel the stress from others who’ve we decide to help because they’re unhappy in some way or they’re not satisfied with what we’re doing. If helping will result in “growth”then we should try to help in some way but if it only creates a dysfunctional environment then we should stay clear. Who needs all that stress? Help those who appreciate the help and for those who don’t they’ll find a way to help themselves.