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BULLIED: UNSPOKEN PAIN INSIDE US

In love, action speaks louder than words but in misery, words cut deeper than the sharpest sword.

Why do words mean so much?

Words define your worth and craft your fate. A single word can make or break a person. It has the power to control you; your thoughts, your emotions, behavior, and even your perceptions in life. If a picture says a thousand words, words can paint a thousand images of you too.

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The quote, “Who are we as human beings, if we ignore the suffering of others?” fits those who overlook the wrongdoings of others because they are afraid to get involved or they just don’t care. They say bullying is normal, but it’s absolutely not. We give bullies power by acknowledging their actions and posting them as one norm of the society. We can define bullying as a disease because no one wants it to happen and yet it doesn’t just go away overnight. It even makes you feel sick about yourself or that something’s wrong with you.

Verbal hounding is very subtle that almost no one notices, making it the worst kind of bullying. Unlike physical harassment, verbal bullying doesn’t show any indication that one has been maltreated because the damage is done from the inside. It demeans one’s morality to the point of breaking and nobody’s there to help because no one is aware of it.

Do not limit yourself because of what others expect. We all ought to have more than we think. So when others try to put you down, all you have to do is to forgive them because you know better than to stoop to their level. Bullies do those things because you have something they don’t. You’re a walking reminder of two things they can never be- happy and successful. Bullies make your life miserable because they are lonely about their wretched lives. If you’re a victim of this act, do not feel sorry for yourself, rather, stand tall and be proud because most of the time, people put you down because you are on the top.




  • Cassy Janine

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    • I had been bullied before but I learned to fight back. I don't need to feel sorry for myself and improve what's really needed. During that time, it was difficult to handle especially at a young age. But then, there is a moment that it will overturn the situation and figure out how to deal with it. Where are the bullies? They are long gone and feel sorry for them because bad karma strikes in perfect timing.

    • It is so nice if one who is being bullied knows how to deal with it like you did. Sad to say, some are so weak to overcome it, which made them think of committing suicide.
      Most children are the victim of bullying, that is why it is advisable for parents to always monitor their Child. They should guide their child in overcoming problems caused by other person.

    • Sometimes it takes standing up for yourself and others. Our job is to teach the younger generations how to approach different type of bulling and to let them know it is okay to open up and let us know how they feel. Many of these young ones think no one care or that parent/s are too busy to care about them. We need to start being more open with kids and directing them towards the right path. In this day and age all over there is violence and hate. We need to spread more love. It is on us as the other generations to give them love. It takes a community to raise a child. If we all just gave love and support to the children maybe that would make a difference. Or maybe just make a safe place for kids to go to talk about what's going on in their lives. Just a thought.

    • I must agree with your thought about how to raise a child @rashawn. That is certainly needed in order for the child to cope when they are bullied; love it is.

      Speaking up their thoughts as a child or showing their real emotion is what they surely have to do. But in some cases, children are afraid of talking about their problems because they think they will just receive a rejection in return instead of comfort.

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